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How To Create A Powerful Relationship with Your Boyfriend
By Crista Beck of Love Your Boyfriend
Taking full responsibility for your relationship with your boyfriend is the key to creating a amazing partnership. Until you take full responsibility for your relationship you will be forever a victim. There are two ways to approach a relationship: taking full responsibility or blaming your boyfriend for how things are going. Take a look into yourself. Pick a problem that you have been having lately with your boyfriend. In your mind are you blaming him for what is happening? If you are blaming him, is that blame creating love and connection or distance and resignation? If you were to approach this same problem from the perspective of taking full responsibility you would look at the problem differently. You may ask yourself: What am I doing to create this problem? Are there any actions I can take to solve this problem? What can I do to create togetherness? See how taking full responsibility increases your power to be the creator of your relationship rather that the victim. Anytime we approach our relationship from a space of victim hood, we lose and so does our boyfriend. You can only win when you take full responsibility for your relationship. Taking full responsibility opens up new avenues, which allows you to create the relationship that you want. I know many people say that a relationship is 50/50. But I believe in order to create an amazing relationship each party needs to play 100/100. If you are playing 100% in the relationship your boyfriend will match you. Taking full responsibility means taking on the perspective that everything that happens in your relationship is because you created it to happen. Accepting full responsibility for your relationship means being willing to do what’s necessary to create the outcome you want. You must actively steer your relationship where you want it to go instead of passively letting it play out. This can be very challenging. It can be personally confronting. You may not have had much control over the results in your relationship so far, but the commitment to take full responsibility gives you the access to create the relationship of your choosing. Denis Waitley: "There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them."
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Love Your Boyfriend
Love and Relationship Advice
www.love-your-boyfriend.com/boyfriend-advice.html
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