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Getting Over Your Ex Boyfriend: Breaking Up, Healing, and Moving On

By Crista Beck of Love Your Boyfriend

Breaking up with your boyfriend is hard. You love him so much and you don’t want to hurt him, but you know that it’s time for the two of you to go your separate ways.

Even though you were the one that broke up with him, getting an over an ex boyfriend is not always an easy thing to do. All your heart strings are connect to his heart strings and the process of cutting those strings hurts a lot.

Breaking up feels like death. There is an extreme feeling of loss and grief. It's difficult to move on and to let go, but there are some things that you can do to get over your ex boyfriend.

The first step is to completely accept the break up. Even though you were the one that broke up with him, doubt and confusion can easily surface. But just remember the reasons why you broke up with him and do your best to stick with your decision.

By fully accepting the breakup you then allow yourself the space you need to heal and to grow. At this stage it is best not to jump into another relationship right away. Allow yourself time to process what happened between you and your ex boyfriend.

Start to look at all the dynamics of your relationship with your ex boyfriend. What are the lessons you learned? What traits in him really worked for you? What traits in him did not work for you? Was there anything you would like to change about yourself? Do you see anything negative that you did in the relationship?

Taking the time to answer these questions will help you to let go, move on, and start to create the type of relationship you would like to have.

In time, you will get over the hurt, and your heart will be open again for another man. Allow yourself the time to heal before moving on.

Contributed by lyb on August 9, 2009, at 8:54 AM UTC.

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Advice on breakups and ex boyfriends.
www.love-your-boyfriend.com/ex-boyfriend.html

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